This year is the 60th anniversary of my brother, Mickey’s, Bar Mitzvah, an event that brought dozens of family members to Forest Park, Illinois, where we all stayed, most of us, in the same house on the Navy base. Folks came by train and plane from Kansas City, the East Coast, and from other places as well. It was a raucus family gathering and celebration that is remembered for how the family provided all the food and entertainment activities. This year is also Mickey’s 10th Yahrzeit.